Your Checkmate

Buy land in secret. Build the house in secret.Then do the housewarming party with publicity.Date in secret. Propose in private.Then marry in front of a crowd.Let your haters only see your reality, never your vision,or you will have division.In a game of chess, you don’t speak. You just act.The only time that you ever speak when playing chess is to say checkmate.Life is like chess.Don’t broadcast your intentions.Act quietly.Keep achieving.Your achievements are your checkmate.

February 15, 2025 · Chuck

15 Sentences That Live In My Head Rent Free

Fear doesn’t stop death; it stops life. If it costs you your peace, it’s too expensive. People only see the decisions you made, not the choices you had. Never take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice from. The magic you’re looking for is in the work you’re avoiding. Ships are safe in the harbor, but that’s not what they’re built for. Ambition without action turns into anxiety. To live a life most people don’t, you must be willing to do what most people won’t. You can do anything, but not everything-focus. If you want to make the wrong decision, ask everyone. Those who don’t move won’t notice their chains. It’s okay to live a life most people don’t understand. If someone could only see your actions and not hear your words, what would they say your priorities are? You can’t have a new reality with an old mentality. No risk, no story.

January 23, 2025 · Chuck

What is crufty and bogacious?

From: The Gospel of Tux Crufty: Meaning: This term, often used in computing, describes something that is cluttered, messy, and overly complex. Think of it as: A software program with a lot of unnecessary features, confusing code, or a user interface that’s hard to navigate. Meaning: This term, often used in computing, describes something that is cluttered, messy, and overly complex. Think of it as: A software program with a lot of unnecessary features, confusing code, or a user interface that’s hard to navigate. Bogacious: Meaning: This is a more informal and somewhat dated term, meaning excellent, impressive, or outstanding. Think of it as: A synonym for “awesome” or “fantastic.” ...

January 16, 2025 · Chuck

Meet me half way

How about delivery service that only delivers halfway? Like, you call to order a pizza, and they say, okay, I’ll meet you in the Marc’s parking lot in a half-hour.

January 3, 2025 · Chuck

This coulda been me

The post was from Facebook, and it says this post is from India, but if you told me this was a photo of me at Uncle Bill’s in 1982, I’d believe you. I had that haircut, that generic gray sweatshirt and I still have a whole case of Star Wars figures

August 23, 2024 · Chuck

Turn Losing Into Learning

SSC: Analyze your loss by asking three questions: Start: What weren’t you doing? What can you start doing differently? Stop: What did you do wrong that you should stop doing? Continue: What was working and should be continued? Reference: The Index Card that Changed My Life

June 11, 2024 · Chuck

Boring Home Snack? Take it to work!

I posted this on Facebook 10 years ago. But it’s still true.

November 21, 2023 · Chuck

Too god-damned soon..

I’m sitting in the theater getting ready to watch 5 Nights at Freddy’s on the day before Halloween. The pre-show commercials have been back-to back-Christmas. What the actual fuck?

October 30, 2023 · Chuck

Stevie's First Halloween

With us being Stevie’s “Official Halloween Sponsors”, I suggested the possibility of this photo way back in August. I was thrilled to see the idea take off and happy to have caught this photo of her first Halloween!

October 29, 2023 · Chuck

I like Fall

October 13, 2023 · Chuck